The concept of weddings has evolved significantly over time. Traditionally, weddings were often viewed as formal affairs, sometimes even described as ‘giving the bride away’ – a notion that feels outdated in today’s world. Now, the focus has shifted. Modern couples, especially those opting for micro weddings, are redefining these celebrations. Today’s weddings, particularly intimate micro weddings, are increasingly seen as a genuine celebration of love between two individuals. These smaller, more personal events allow couples to strip away societal expectations and outdated traditions, focusing instead on what truly matters: their commitment to each other and the joy of sharing that moment with their closest loved ones.
What exactly is a Micro Wedding?
In short, A Micro-Wedding is an intimate celebration that scales down the traditional wedding format while maintaining its core elements. At Deity, we define Micro-Wedding packages as those catering to 50 guests or less. This scaled-down version of a traditional wedding maintains all the elements of a larger celebration but in a more intimate setting.
Why have a Micro Wedding?
Micro weddings offer couples the opportunity to create a more personalized and meaningful experience, often allowing for higher quality in details and guest experience due to the reduced scale. These smaller celebrations can include all the traditional elements of a wedding – ceremony, reception, dining, and dancing – but with a cozier, more relaxed atmosphere.
The concept of micro weddings has gained popularity for various reasons, including budget considerations, desire for a more intimate atmosphere, and the ability to splurge on certain aspects that might be cost-prohibitive with a larger guest list. At Deity, these smaller celebrations allow couples to enjoy our beautiful space and top-notch services while maintaining a close-knit feel to their special day.



Photos by William Thomas
How Much Does a Micro Wedding Cost?
The cost of a micro wedding can vary significantly depending on several key factors. The primary influences on your budget will be:
- Location: Where you choose to host your celebration
- Vendors: The professionals you hire for services like photography, floristry, and music
- Food and Beverage: The type and quality of catering you select
- Guest Count: Even within the micro wedding category, the number of guests can impact costs
- Season and Day of Week: Peak seasons and weekend dates often come with higher price tags
While these variables can make it challenging to pinpoint an exact cost, at Deity, we strive to simplify the planning process and provide clarity on expenses. We offer three comprehensive packages designed to cover most of the costs typically associated with a wedding:

These all-inclusive options help minimize stress by bundling essential services and amenities, allowing you to focus on personalizing your special day rather than juggling multiple vendors and contracts.
We understand that every couple is unique, and your vision for your wedding might not fit neatly into a pre-designed package. That’s why we’re committed to working closely with our clients to tailor their event to be exactly what they want. Whether you’d like to alter certain aspects of a package, opt out of having your ceremony at our venue, or have any other specific requests, we’re here to accommodate your needs. Our goal is to create a celebration that truly reflects your personal style and preferences.
Remember, while a micro wedding is generally more cost-effective than a traditional large wedding, it’s still an investment in creating unforgettable memories. Our packages are designed to offer exceptional value while ensuring a high-quality, intimate celebration tailored to your vision.
Budget-Friendly Tips for Micro Weddings
- Prioritize Your Must-Haves
Focus on what’s most important to you, whether it’s the venue, photography, or food. Allocate more of your budget to those key areas and simplify or DIY the rest.
- Choose an All-Inclusive Venue
Opt for a venue that offers all-inclusive packages. These can save you money on separate rentals, vendors, and decor. Some venues even provide a day-of coordinator, which can eliminate the need for an external wedding planner. Hey, we know a place *wink, wink*
- Limit the Guest List
Keep the guest list small. A micro wedding typically includes 20-50 guests, which not only lowers costs but also creates a more intimate atmosphere.
- DIY Decor
Take on DIY projects for decor, such as making your own centerpieces, signage, or even bouquets. You can also rent or borrow decorations from friends or family.
- Digital Invitations
Save on printing and postage by sending digital invitations. They’re not only budget-friendly but also eco-friendly.
- Local and Seasonal Flowers
Choose flowers that are in season and locally sourced to cut down on costs. A great option is working with Poppy Flowers. They take care of everything and help you find a local vendor, for a much better price. You could also use greenery or non-floral elements to create beautiful arrangements. Alternatively, you can rent silk flowers from places like Silk Stem Collective. They offer pieces that have the look and feel of real flowers, for a fraction of the cost.
- Hire a Freelance Photographer
Consider hiring a freelance photographer who’s building their portfolio. They often charge less than established professionals but can still deliver quality work.
- Off-Peak Timing
Have your wedding on a weekday or during an off-peak season. Many venues (similar to us) and vendors offer discounts for non-traditional dates.
- Rent or Borrow Attire
Consider renting your wedding dress, suit, or bridesmaids’ dresses. You can also borrow accessories or attire from friends or family.
- Focus on What You Can Afford
Remember that this day is about your love and commitment. You don’t need to spend a fortune to make it special. Keep the focus on meaningful moments rather than expensive details.



Photos by Cheyanna De Nicola and florals by Lulo Floral
Plan your Micro Wedding with us!
Planning a micro wedding doesn’t mean sacrificing style or significance. At Deity, we specialize in creating unforgettable intimate celebrations that fit your budget and vision. We’re excited to announce new dates available specifically for micro weddings!
New Micro Wedding dates available
- Sunday, October 27, 2024
- Saturday, November 16, 2024
- Friday, November 22, 2024
- Saturday, November 23, 2024
- Friday, December 6, 2024
- Sunday, December 08, 2024
Don’t wait – reach out now to secure your ideal date and start planning the intimate wedding of your dreams!
Ready to see how our unique space can make your big day truly special? Book a tour today to explore our venue, meet our team, and discover more about how we can bring your dream wedding to life. Click here to schedule your visit and let’s start planning!
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